Are You a Family On Purpose?
Your Dictionary.com says…
“The definition of dysfunctional is something that is flawed and doesn’t operate correctly, or someone that deviates from normal and accepted social behavior.”1997 was likely one of the most profound years I have ever known. I, like many of you came from a “dysfunctional” family. Oh no! My secret is out!
It was in the spring of 1997 when I was introduced to the concept that we all have soul contracts and part of this soul contract is about choosing our parents. Wow. After 38 years I was no longer a victim of my so called “dysfunctional family.” If I chose my parents, then I guess I am a “student” who “chose” to be a part of this dysfunctional family. Who knew?
So I get it. My family was flawed and didn’t operate like everyone else’s but isn’t that everyone’s story? Did your family operate the same as the people next door? And yes my Dad drank….well…he drank a lot but who decided that he deviated from “normal and accepted social behavior?” Who wrote those rules anyway?
The point I am trying to make here is that if you can accept the concept that you chose your parents before you incarnated into this lifetime then you are no longer a victim of circumstance. You are a student who chose your parents based upon the lessons you agreed to learn when you got here to this chapter of earth school.
There is so much power in accepting that you chose your family! Let me point out that I do not believe that you chose specific acts of violence or neglect but I do believe that you chose your parents based on the lessons you agreed to learn from them this lifetime around.
Would I have chosen an alcoholic father? Hell no! But I likely agreed to learn the lessons around patience, tolerance, forgiveness, compassion and self-worth. Dad was the perfect guy to facilitate those lessons for me.
You see we don’t choose the abuse or neglect. We just ask for the lessons associated with it.
So consider this…..
If you chose your parents…..your children also chose you. They chose you so they could learn lessons from you regardless of how perfect or imperfect a parent you are!
Your Numerology chart is a document which outlines your souls contract. My job is to interpret that for you and your children. Your date of birth was chosen by you. The numbers in your date of birth reveal what you chose your life purpose to be in this life time. It outlines your strengths and your weaknesses as well as what you and your children are best suited to work at in this lifetime.
Can you see how valuable knowing what you and your children are really good at can be? How wonderful it would be to save your children from numerous failed attempts only to steer them in a direction that insures success!
None of us remember why we are here and what we are meant to be doing once we pass through the birth canal. But our Numerology chart does remember and it does hold all the keys to your success! You wrote it after all!
My job is to re-introduce you and your children to the contracts you wrote before you got here. My job is to interpret your child’s soul contract so you can guide them towards positive life experiences based on the talents illustrated in their contract.
Your job is to care enough to learn about their contract so you can be a better parent to them.
Families are complicated. Just because our kids chose us does not mean that we will get along with them. My Mother always said she should have eaten us all at birth just like the animal kingdom does when they see that that one just doesn’t fit in! Good thing Mom preferred steak over us! Phew!
So do you ever wonder why your 2 children clash? Maybe you wonder why your husband used to get along with your daughter but now he doesn’t? Are you closer to one parent or child than to another? Why is that? Why do you resonate with one child and not so much with others? Numerology can help us understand our family from an entirely different perspective. Seeing us all in a different light offers tremendous insight often resulting in deep profound healing. Even a basic understanding of Numerology will provide you with so much insight as to why some people are compatible and some are not. Are you ready?! Let the healing begin!
If you are having difficulty understanding your child or possibly other dynamics in your home, please consider exploring your family through the eyes of Numerology.